As humans we have different stories, but many times there are similarities.  I'm not looking for the critics to voice what they disagree with, but for those who identify to know there's hope. I share mine and Evan’s story for those who are standing in the shadows, hurting, and hoping there's a way out, to know that in fact there is!

A perfect marriage isn’t flawless! Marriage looks messy. It’s complicated. A perfect marriage in my opinion is one that involves two people who love each other and actually want to do life together so they both work diligently on becoming the best version of themselves for the sake of everyone they live with, including their own self!

As a kid I loved to have a good time, but as I grew I learned that life carried with it a lot of hardships and challenges and I had time for fun less and less…. I got to the point that I didn’t even feel comfortable having fun when someone invited me to. I was uneasy and wanted to get away from the atmosphere that was relaxed, happy and fun.

I grew up in a family of eight; I was the third of six children and the first girl… My childhood was good, but home-life was filled with tension and stress.

Growing up I can remember countless times I would have thoughts about myself and my body that were downright mean. The reflection we see when we look at the mirror isn't always the true version of ourselves.

Here's the truth I want to send - you are beautifully unique. You have strengths that are wonderful. Learn to rest in them as you develop; don’t strive to be known. You being your true self will turn many heads!